Parenting Time

Parenting time, formerly called visitation, is the time a non-custodial parent spends with the child. It is considered to be in the child's best interest to have regular contact with the non-custodial parent unless there is clear and convincing evidence showing that parenting time would jeopardize the child's physical, mental, or emotional health.

Reasonable Parenting Time
Reasonable parenting time means the parents work cooperatively in coordinating parenting time. This type of parenting time order is generally more flexible and allows parents more control in changing parenting time plans.

Specific Parenting Time
Specific parenting time is typically a court-ordered schedule defining when parenting time is to take place.  Although this does not provide as much flexibility as reasonable parenting time, the additional structure is often helpful for parents.

Parenting Time Factors
The Michigan Child Custody Act provides the following factors for determining the frequency, duration, and type of parenting time to be granted by the Court:

  1. The existence of any special circumstances or needs of the child.
  2. Whether the child is a nursing child less than 6 months of age, or less than 1 year of age if the child receives substantial nutrition through nursing.
  3. The reasonable likelihood of abuse or neglect of the child during parenting time.
  4. The reasonable likelihood of abuse of a parent resulting from the exercise of parenting time.
  5. The inconvenience to, and burdensome impact or effect on the child of traveling to and from the parenting time.
  6. Whether the visiting parent can reasonably be expected to exercise parenting time in accordance with the court order.
  7. Whether the visiting parent has frequently failed to exercise parenting time.
  8. The threatened or actual detention of the child with the intent to retain or conceal the child from the other parent or from a third person who has legal custody. A custodial parent's temporary residence with the child in a domestic violence shelter shall not be construed as evidence of the custodial parent's intent to retain or conceal the child from the other parent.
  9. Any other relevant factors.

Parenting Time Enforcement
The Friend of the Court is required to provide enforcement services regarding parenting time orders. Enforcement begins when a written statement including dates, times, and reasons for any claimed denial of parenting time is received  A party may request Friend of the Court assistance in preparing the statement. Most parenting time issues are addressed first through mediation.  If mediation is not successful in resolving the issue, then the Friend of the Court may set a binding schedule, in some cases, or schedule a hearing to resolve the issue.


Parenting time and support are separate orders of the court, with separate enforcement procedures. Child support should still be paid if the custodial parent is not allowing parenting time and  parenting time should be allowed if the non-custodial parent is not paying child support.  

It is the custodial parent's decision whether or not to send the child for parenting time if it appears that the other parent has been drinking excessively or using drugs.  If the decision is made to deny parenting time in these circumstances, the custodial parent may be asked to explain to the court why denying parenting time was in the best interest of the child.

Parenting Time Modification
A change or modification of the parenting time order may be initiated by the Friend of the Court or by either party.  In many cases the Friend of the Court will hold an informal hearing or mediation session to address changes in parenting time.  The Friend of the Court offers a Motion Regarding Parenting Time for use by a party who chooses to file a motion to establish or change parenting time. Instructions and assistance are available. A $100 filing fee is required.


If the parties agree to a parenting time order, the Friend of the Court will prepare a stipulation and order at no cost to the parties.

Parenting Time For Teens
The teenage years are often stressful and may be further complicated for the child by parenting time demands.  As a child grows and changes, it may be helpful to change the parenting time plan.  You may want to see if you can work out a different parenting time arrangement with the child and the other parent or you may contact the Friend of the Court in writing for assistance.


Quick Links
Custody and Parenting Time Investigation Manual

Supporting Documents/Forms
Motion for Parenting Time

Denial of Parenting Time
Standard Holiday Schedule
Objection to Referee hearing
Fee waiver

Frequently Asked Questions
Do I have to let my child go for parenting time if it appears that the other parent has been drinking or using drugs?
That is your decision. If you make the decision to deny parenting time in these circumstances, you may be asked to explain why you felt your decision was in the best interest of the child. For a persistent situation the best procedure is to consult with your attorney, if you have one. If the other parent disputes your claim that they were drinking or using drugs and files a complaint with the Friend of the Court, you may be required to explain to the FOC or the court why you denied parenting time to the other parent. You will then be required to establish that there was an apparent danger to the child that caused you to deny the scheduled parenting time.
How old does a child or children have to be before they can decide where to live?

When children reach the age of 18 years (or are determined to be emancipated by a judge), they can decide where to live. However, before age 18, Factor (i) of the Child Custody Act requires the court to consider, “The reasonable preference of the child, if the court considers the child to be of sufficient age to express preference.” Judges usually place more emphasis on the preference of the child if the child demonstrates a greater level of maturity and understanding.

Do I have to get the court's permission to move more than 100 miles from my current home if I only have parenting time with my child?
Yes, unless the other parent agrees, both parents were already living 100 miles apart when the Judge signed your court order, sole custody was granted to the other parent, or the move results in the child's 2 legal residences being close to each other than before the move.
What do I do if I disagree with the Referee's Recommandation and Judge's Order?
If you have a hearing before the Referee and you disagree with the recommendation and order signed by the Judge, you need to file an objection (a written disagreement filed with the court) with the county clerk's office. You have 21 days from the mailing date of the order to file the objection (this date is also listed on the Proof of Service that was attached to your order). 
My parenting time order states I have "reasonable parenting time rights." What does this mean?

Reasonable parenting time rights can vary greatly from case to case, taking into consideration the parents' schedules and the ages or needs of the child. What is reasonable in one situation may not be reasonable in another. Most frequently, however, a regular pattern of parenting time is established.

The other party is not following the parenting time order (i.e., child is not ready for parenting time; child is picked up and/or returned late, etc). What can I do?

File a written Parenting Time Complaint with the Friend of the Court office (FOC can provide the form). If the FOC determines that either parent has violated the parenting time order, they will start appropriate enforcement action.

Clothing is not sent for or returned from parenting time. Is there anything the Friend of the Court can do?
The Friend of the Court does not have any power to require the parent to provide or return clothing.
I am concerned about the other parent discussing changes in the court orders with the child. What can the Friend of the Court do?
The Friend of the Court cannot prevent the other parent from discussing court orders with the children.
Does the Friend of the Court have a responsibility to investigate alleged abuse and/or neglect of a child?
No. Friend of the Court is not responsible for investigating child abuse or neglect. Allegations of abuse or neglect should be reported to the Children's Protective Services (CPS) unit of your local Department of Health and Human Services (DHHS) office.